A part of ever human beings perception lies in their ability to read body language. Although we use our sense of sight, smell and touch to a great degree we also rely on subtle clues that are mostly registered unconsciously. How would you like to consciously be able to read another person’s non-verbal clues and also develop your own? Would you like to be an expert at body language flirting?

How often have you met someone that you naturally “warmed” to? Have you ever been in someone’s company who sent shivers up your spine or you took an instant dislike to without having any apparent reason? Have you ever suspected someone of lying because they delivered their speech in a way that seemed unconvincing? Have you ever seen someone who you were immediately attracted to because of the way they moved or talked rather than on their looks or what they were saying? This is body language flirting at work.

Every human being reads the non-verbal clues of others. We unconsciously view others by matching their speech and what they are doing to their body language.

Males sometimes find it hard to read non-verbal clues in others. Men are very much ruled by their heads and are less in touch with their emotional sides. As women are ruled by emotions they are more aware of emotional signs which are usually portrayed through our body language.

All of us, even if we are completely unaware of it, give off signals that are clues to how we are thinking and what our intentions are. The body language of a man or woman can tell you countless things about them if you know how to read it. Every uses body language flirting to some extent even if they do not know they are doing it.

Females are notoriously good at judging a man’s intentions. They usually achieve this through looking at his body language flirting and comparing it to what he is saying. Men find this much more difficult.

Body language flirting, and any form of non-verbal communication, is driven by your current mind-set. Your mind-set is determined by how you are think and what you are feeling.

It is possible to learn how to use your body to portray anything you want - especially for body language flirting. There are courses available that can teach you the correct posture, hand gestures tonality of voice and so on. These courses use a forced approach to body language flirting and can be hard to master.

However, there is an easier and faster way. There is a way that can allow you to read and portray the best body language flirting techniques without much work on your part. As body language flirting is driven by how you are thinking and feeling all you have to do is control these two things. Doing this will allow your body language flirting to be natural and, thus, much more powerful and attractive. This is much easier than you may think!

You can achieve this by creating certain emotions in yourself by thinking certain thoughts. This can be extremely pleasurable as well as productive.

Body language flirting can be controlled through a simple process of mental imagery which is better known as visualization. By imagining yourself as being confident and at ease around attractive people you can create positive natural responses in your body.

Imagine now that you are confident, charming and attractive to potentials mates. See yourself in your mind’s eye as interacting with people in a way that oozes charisma. Can you imagine what that would feel like?

After several minutes of doing this mental exercise imagine that you are actually stepping into that “other” you. Feel how good it feels to be that new you and enjoy those feelings. This is training your body to be confident and body language flirting will become natural.

Flirting is all about light hearted attention and advances. These tend to be more verbal initially. But as time goes by, the physical aspect too must come in. However, it all depends to what extent you wish to be familiar with the girl. If it’s in your nature to flirt with all alike without a serious motive then it gets restricted to being mere verbal. But if your intention is more serious, then the physical will come in at your second or third meeting. Let us see how you should get started….

Verbally-

The first thing about verbal flirting is being confident about your word skills. You must have that flair for flirtatious conversation. Be humorous and jovial and familiarize yourself with double meanings or puns and use them generously. Know when to say what and how to put it across. Keep conversation light and jocular. Keep your girl in splits. She’ll love you for that. Of course if she’s the serious type then may be she’s not meant for you!

Physical-

Depending on how much time you’ve already spent with her and how fast she eggs you on, hold her hand. Maybe you should practice a little palm reading so you have a ready excuse to hold her hand and caress it to an extent which is not too obvious initially. Most people are fascinated by having their characteristics read from their palm.

Dating-

By now you should have gauged her inclination towards you. Perhaps she would like to meet you again. Get your conversation round to asking her out for dinner at your next meeting. She would love to be pampered, so take her to a good place which also suits your pocket. You should order your dinner with her approval of a particular savory or cuisine. And most important of all do remember to kiss her goodnight at her doorstep. Tell her how lovely the evening was and that you would like to spend more time with her in the future.

These tips are sure to make your flirting meaningful.

Want to attract girls easily to you beginning RIGHT NOW? I’m about to share with you a powerful concept…

Humor.

If you’ve ever seen a survey that asks women what they want in a man, you’ll find that humor pretty much always comes within the top 3.

Sites on the Internet call flirting-with-humor all sorts of names…things like cocky-funny, simple teasing, sarcasm, and even “negging.” You might have heard one or more of these names before.

Many guys don’t know how to successfully flirt using humor, and they tend to mess up their chances of ever getting the girl as a result…

If you are to get a woman laughing and SIMULTANEOUSLY attract her, there are certain principles you must understand that knowing them and following them will provide you great success with women and dating. They are known as the 4 RULES of humor.

RULE #1: No Clowns in Flirting

There’s a fine line between being funny and attracting women versus acting like a clown. Clowns (and acting like one) don’t attract women. It can come off like you are trying too hard. You may have noticed this when other guys try to get woemn to laugh and end up making a fool out of themselves instead.

Your social status goes down if you act like a clown because you portray being more desperate…like you are wanting her approval very badly… And that’s really bad for attraction.

Definitely no slapstick humor. That only gets women to laugh AT you instead of WITH you.

The humor that attracts women is rarely the kind used by comedians. Many comedians who can get women to laugh a lot rarely get laid!

RULE #2: Tease Her

Perhaps you can remember how 5th grade boys tend to act a certain way when they like a certain girl. They may call her names or even pull her hair.

Although I don’t endorse pulling her hair (at least not for now), TEASING her is a fantastic way to incorporate humor into your arsenal for attracting women. You can’t be a jerk though. It’s about treating the girl in a particular way that displays to her you are totally comfortable in your own skin and can tease her.

The following lists some ways you can tease her…

• Giving her a nickname (my personal favorite)

• Mocking her voice

• With humor and positive intention, change around what she says

By teasing a girl, you are assuming familiarity, and if the two of you just met and you are ALREADY teasing her, there’s really no “uncomfortable period” that typically happens when two people just meet.

RULE #3: Use Your Body Language

Great comedians tend to use their entire body while delivering their gig. I mean they involve their facial expressions, utilize props, gestures with their hands, and anything they can grab ahold of…all to get people to laugh.

Again, clown-like behavior doesn’t attract women. However, make sure you use your BODY LANGUAGE in ways that ensure congruence with the things you say. One way to do this is to establish physical contact while teasing her. This shows her you are a guy who is comfortable to play around her.

Some ways to do this are…

• Playfully swatting her

• Pushing her away, only to pull her back into a hug

• Playing games like “thumb war” and “hand slapping”

Just simply break the “touch” barrier by simultaneously using humor while attracting her.

RULE #4: Do Other Things

How about I share with you an analogy for using humor to attract women successfully? Humor is more like the spice in the recipe than the main dish itself.

By SOLELY teasing her and making her laugh, you don’t provide her the opportunity to notice the other great aspects of your personality, so it is definitely important to use other things that continue to help you build (and maintain) attraction.

Some things you can do while she’s laughing are…

• Establish physical contact

• Storytelling

• Create a deep emotional connection

• Ask her questions

Doing these kinds of things give her the chance to notice you as a well-rounded individual, rather than only as someone who can make her laugh.

Therefore, in your toolbox of tricks to attract girls, one of your most powerful ones is humor. Be sure to get it right by adhering to the 4 rules of humor you’ve just read so that you can create a connection that is both flirty and fun…and always works in your favor to get the girl.